Did you lose or are you losing your mate because they just aren’t that into you anymore? This is a common issue that causes a lot of relationships to end the world over. Your ex has lost interest in you.
When your ex is no longer into you, is there anything you can do to get them back? After all, you didnt really do anything wrong, you didnt cheat on your mate, but over time they lost interest and passion for you and felt that you were no longer the one for them. They want to move on.
Your ex isn’t really angry at you, they are probably still friendly, they just aren’t that into you anymore. They think the thrill is gone and its time to move on.
This is one of the most difficult reasons for a break up to recover from. Once your ex feels that the thrill is gone, that you arent the one, the emotional distance that builds up can be hard to bridge. However, one of the advantages of this type of break up is that usually they are still friendly towards you, and they are still approachable. You can use this friendliness to your benefit as you take steps to get them back.
If you want to get your ex back, a first step is to find out as specifically as you can why they aren’t that into you anymore. What’s missing for them? Are they bored? Did things get too stale or mechanical? Is it the sex? Is it lack of communication? Loss of passion?
Once you figure out as exactly as possible why they are no longer that into you, then you have some useful information. If you know its the sex, or money, or lack of communication, you know something important.
Then you are ready for the next step. You’ve got to figure out, do you want to change that for them? If they feel that you are too distant and uncommunicative, do you really want to try to change that about yourself for them? If you do, then you have a possibility of getting them back.
You simply tell them you want to work on that thing so that you can give them what they want. You tell them you want to make them happy and so you will work on being more communicative or more sexually playful or whatever, and will they help you with that? It doesnt always work, but it can give you a starting place to get your ex back when they just arent that into you for some reason.
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