When it comes to women, are you satisfied in your life? Well if you aren’t, maybe you need to swallow your pride and learn how you can enjoy success with women. Reading this article can help set you on that path.

Most men have too much pride or think they don’t need to be taught how to flirt with women. And that is exactly what is holding them back. If you had an older brother or a friend who was a ladies man, would you listen to his advice?

Getting dates wasn’t a problem for me but keeping it interesting was. I would ask the same old questions everyone asks when on a first date. You know the boring questions like “what’s your favorite singing group”?

I thought expensive restaurants and buying flowers would impress a woman. But I found that my dates wanted nothing to do with me after being on what I thought was a perfect date. Can you relate to what I am saying?

Well getting better with women is just like anything else in life. You need to learn how to do it. Just like any professional sports figure. They didn’t come out the womb knowing how to swing a bat or shoot a basketball. They were taught.

Now don’t get me wrong. There are naturals. But I am quite certain that they learned along the way. They just progressed quickly because they are naturals.

Anyone man can learn to be a natural at this. And once you start to practice, you will have many “aha’ moments. You just need to learn from some experts in the field of meeting women.

You can approach girls with confidence. You can get a woman’s numbers 3 minutes after meeting her. You can use that number to get a date and who knows what else after that.

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Here’s a great reason to learn about female body language: avoiding rejection. Men complain about getting blown off and often blame themselves for not approaching a woman the right way, for acting too cocky and for not looking good enough. Some of these things may ring true but remember that approaching a lady at a gathering is only half the battle. What if you could know from the start whether she will reject you or not? Spare yourself the agony of guesswork and analyze her actions before approaching her. Is she ready to meet people or is she waiting for her boy friend to arrive? Did she attend the party alone or is she scanning the crowd for a guy she’s attracted to?

1. Search the crowd for women who are scouting for a catch – A woman who is looking to be approached will stand rather straight up. Her facial muscles will be relaxed and she will show a half smile. She is probably trying to act casual while idly scanning the crowd and she may be holding a drink in one hand.

2. Smoothing her hair – Part of this preening process is making sure that she looks her very best during any meeting. If she’s not touching her hair, it’s her dress. She will also turn around quite often to glance at a mirror. A guy can literally practice reading female body language a few minutes before he approaches, just to get familiar with the subtle signs that a woman sends out to indicate that she is really available and interested.

3. Watch her while she talks with people – Look for her slowly crossing and uncrossing her legs. A delicate balancing of a shoe on the toe of one foot means she’s very comfortable talking to this guy. Some female body language signs that convey comfort include tucking the feet under the chair and caressing or fiddling with a part of her legs or her face.

4. Direct eye contact – You will often see a woman looking at you directly. Watch for signs when she looks away embarrassed as soon as you catch her. This is actually a good sign. A direct gaze is a sign that she wants attention. But don’t approach her just yet. Send your own signals and let her continue giving you signs through female body language that shows she’s eager to talk to you.

5. Look for shoulders and torsos that are pointing towards you. You can test this female body language inside the library. If you pass by a row of shelves and a woman is right there holding a book, her body will follow you even when her eyes are downcast. This is one sign that a woman is seeing you without looking directly at you, and this could be used as a cue to identify those inside a room who are already aware of your presence.

6. Demure gestures – Every woman can act demure when in the presence of an attractive guy. It doesn’t matter how empowered the woman is, when she’s in front of a guy she likes, she will most likely act coy and demure. Subtle tilting of her head and laughing in a flirtatious way are some of the demure gestures to look for.

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Look at me: I gotta case of body language, Freddie Mercury / Queen

How to flirt with your body? Human communication conveys 7% of information through the meaning of words, 38% of information is passed through intonation and pace of speech, and 55% of information is admitted only with the aid of mimics and gestures. So that is the case of body language. How can we use it in order to understand the others and being understood? How can we arouse an interest in another person by using body language? Freddie got it right: this is a language for eyes, not ears.

Follow the eyes. During business conversation we usually fix our eyesight on the left eye of another person, then transfer it to the space between the eyes, then fix it on the right eye, and so on in a cycle. You cant physically look straight into persons eyes, but, if you follow this order you will make an impression that you do. When we are talking with friends, the path is a bit different, it is actually wider. Our eyesight stops below the eye level of a person, then it moves along a triangle, which includes nose and mouth.

During a light, flirting conversation the area of eye scan gets even bigger. And if you feel any sexual interest to this person, the center of the scanned area will shift toward person lips. Same will be true, of course, in case if someone you are talking to seem like is gazing right into your mouth: it is very likely that this person already is kissing your lips in her (his) imagination. So you better know that, the rest will be up to you.

Do it as I do. What makes a difference between light flirting and strong desire in a body language terms? If you are really want to get involved with him or her, mimic the object of your desire. When someone behaves similarly to us, we conclude that we have a lot in common with that person. Of course, avoid imitating any negative features of this person, because such mimicking will easily turn into a mockery. In other words, mimic must be moderate, total copycatting will not do any good for you. Even if you are copying the gestures of a person, always take a minute pause before you do your part.

Say Hi with your eyebrows. Lifting eyebrows is one of the most ancient ways of showing friendliness to another person. If you are getting the same in reply, the feelings are mutual. Maybe this was a greeting of our forbears when they were passing each other caves? Languages came later. Now you can use this old way of winning sympathy.

Where the eyes rest. Watching another person movements (hands and feet) is a general sign of an interest. Seem like a trivial notion, but it is one of the strongest statements of body language. If this person (whom you were watching) notices and moves towards you: the interest is mutual. This is a moment when the body language usually turns into a spoken one!

Wink me back! Have you ever exchanged winks with someone? Wink is a sign of an interest and attraction. No surprise that it is used in the dating networks as an invitation for a chat. Same is in the offline world. If you see someone who is interesting to you, wink her (him). Got wink in reply? Start talking.

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