Huge Mistakes You ARE making Stop if You Want Your Ex Back

by Jackie Howie

Want your ex back, willing to do anything. Stop!I bet you anything, you are completely screwing everything up. Stop doing what you are doing. If you want your ex back discover what you are doing wrong and STOP doing it. Why you must stop doing this and what you should do.

This is very important, YOU CAN’T BUY LOVE. Are you sending them expensive gifts thinking this will make them want to come back? Stop, this is a waste of time and money. You cannot buy back love. Think of where and how the relationship went wrong, put your focus on this instead of trying to buy back love. Try and work on how you could have done things differently.

Think you did nothing wrong, HUGE MISTAKE. You want your ex back but will not accept any of the responsibility. Would you want to go back to someone who was that perfect. Figure how you could have done thing differently, apologize for what you did to upset things. You cannot put all of the blame on your ex.

It is easier to point the finger at someone else than to accept some of the responsibility might be yours, blaming your ex will not help.

Guilt tripping you ex, blaming them for your misery. A really common mistake. You are the only one with power over your emotions. Why the hell would anyone want to be around someone who makes them feel guilty in their company all the time.

Live in the present, don’t keep dragging up past mistakes. Don’t keep blame your ex for your emotional state. Control your emotions, begin with trying to be positive.

Want your ex back, but you are acting like a total wreck, miserable all the time. This would not be a reason why your ex would want to come back, so you can make them feel miserable too.

Now listen, pick your self up. Tell your mind, I am a beautiful positive person with alot of love to give. Focus on helping others, become a person who you would admire and want to spend time with.

Being needy or letting your ex know exactly how much you want them back will not do you any good. Keep your respect and dignity.

Being Needy or letting them know that you want them too much, not good. Keep your self respect and dignity.

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This post was written by Jackie Howie on December 17, 2008

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Winning Your Ex Girlfriend Back Is Not Easy

by Sara Summers

Your woman has recently broken up with you, and you are feeling like it is the end of the world. You always think about her and about everything you have done together and wished that she is still your girl. You even try to write her letters asking her to get back together with you again. But these letters all ended up in your waste basket.

You know you are desperate to get your girl back. But, do you really know what went wrong in your relationship? The real reasons for the breakup might be puzzling you. But it is better to stop thinking about it and move on with your life.

If you want to get your girl back, the main strategy is to forget about your relationship for a while, and focus your energy into your hobbies or something else. Have fun and forget about women in general. Go away for at least two months, enjoy your vacation and make changes in your life. Taking some time away from your exgirlfriend will work wonders. It will allow you to make gradual changes in your life. After a few months, you will get a much better idea of how you want to proceed with your relationship with your exgirlfriend.

Be honest to yourself. What do you want to do with your life? If you still want to get her back, then you should try to figure out her feelings about you. If your relationship with her was filled with many good moments and loving memories together, then you will have a very good chance of getting her back.

However, do not try to beg your girl to get back with you. It will only scare her away. Do not insist yourself. If you have been apart from her for some time, she is probably missing you as much as you are missing her. Be a little hard to get but do not over do it. Just try to show her that you are doing fine without her. This will make her rethink things between the two of you.

Remember, if your woman is really meant for you, she will get back with you. Just be patient, and be careful not to analyze things too much. Take it slow and you should be fine.

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