Want your ex back, willing to do anything. Stop!I bet you anything, you are completely screwing everything up. Stop doing what you are doing. If you want your ex back discover what you are doing wrong and STOP doing it. Why you must stop doing this and what you should do.
This is very important, YOU CAN’T BUY LOVE. Are you sending them expensive gifts thinking this will make them want to come back? Stop, this is a waste of time and money. You cannot buy back love. Think of where and how the relationship went wrong, put your focus on this instead of trying to buy back love. Try and work on how you could have done things differently.
Think you did nothing wrong, HUGE MISTAKE. You want your ex back but will not accept any of the responsibility. Would you want to go back to someone who was that perfect. Figure how you could have done thing differently, apologize for what you did to upset things. You cannot put all of the blame on your ex.
It is easier to point the finger at someone else than to accept some of the responsibility might be yours, blaming your ex will not help.
Guilt tripping you ex, blaming them for your misery. A really common mistake. You are the only one with power over your emotions. Why the hell would anyone want to be around someone who makes them feel guilty in their company all the time.
Live in the present, don’t keep dragging up past mistakes. Don’t keep blame your ex for your emotional state. Control your emotions, begin with trying to be positive.
Want your ex back, but you are acting like a total wreck, miserable all the time. This would not be a reason why your ex would want to come back, so you can make them feel miserable too.
Now listen, pick your self up. Tell your mind, I am a beautiful positive person with alot of love to give. Focus on helping others, become a person who you would admire and want to spend time with.
Being needy or letting your ex know exactly how much you want them back will not do you any good. Keep your respect and dignity.
Being Needy or letting them know that you want them too much, not good. Keep your self respect and dignity.
Posted under Relationships
This post was written by Jackie Howie on December 17, 2008

